How Did Zoe Find Her Own Self-Worth?
Here is Zoe's personal account of how she finally learned to appreciate her own self-worth...
I spoke to a wonderful Hope Coach about issues I've had with my Mum and my brother, who sadly, is no longer a part of our lives as he disowned us all last year. I explained how I was feeling and was advised that I can't change who my Mum is but what I can do is set my own rules and boundaries to protect myself and stop enabling others to put me in situations that no longer make me happy.
These people (the Hope Coaches) are so down to earth and they speak a lot of honesty truth and logic.
I was made to appreciate my own self-value and worth and that other people's battles aren't mine to fight anymore. They have to handle them on their own. I've done my fair share of battling through my life and it's time for me to take a step back and look after myself.
-Zoe (from the UK)
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The hardest part is realization, so be strong. It doesn't ever feel good to set boundaries for family, or even separate from them. The idea is to get along all of the time, but...The One God made people complex. I don't know your history, but it sounds to me that you are absolutely human. Be strong. Mistakes can be passed down from the parent, and you're left picking up the pieces. Lead by example. Heal yourself first.